Monday, February 29, 2016

Let's Be Real

I hate stereotypes involving gender roles:
Guys are supposed to be into sports and cars.
Girls are supposed to be into shopping and shoes.
Guys can't show emotion.
Girls have to be emotional.
The Guy has to pay.
The Girl has to graciously let the Guy pay.
Guys have to always iniate a relationship with a Girl.
The Girl can't be the agressor.

I want to be rule breaker in my relationship:
I'm not into shopping or shoes.
Sports and cars do not have to be the only thing guys like or like at all.
We are all individuals. 
There's no shame in a man showing emotion and is more a matter of temperament I think.
Why can't the individual couple decide for themselves. If they want to go Dutch or meet halfway, why not? 
And why can't a relationship be equal? Why can't the guy and girl decide to both iniate? 

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